Spicy Dicey! Dicey is one of the few people I’ve actually met on Twitter first. I don’t remember how, but I think it was probably from either one of us tweeting or commenting on something. Dicey writes “spicy” novels that she describes as “sexy, wild, daring, and risky.” I read one of her novels, Best Friends, Fantasy Lovers, and enjoyed it. Not only did I learn a little something about the BDSM subculture (I’m one of those rare women who did not read 50 Shades nor saw the movie), but it also reminded me of my undergrad years at the University of Tennessee (and no, not because of the kinky stuff, lol).
I participated in a foreign exchange roommate program where I lived with ladies from abroad. One of my roommates was Irish and she was a riot! I had a blast hanging out with her. I learned things about Ireland and about British culture in general (including a band called The Streets). When I discovered one of the main characters in the story was Irish, and that she stayed true to British slang and syntax, I was hooked! I suppose nostalgia has the power to do that.
Any who, what’s cool about Dicey (aside from her jokes and the fact that she balances writing with being an attorney, mom, and wife… whew!) is that she’s always supportive; she retweets random stuff from my timeline and she always comments on something I say, which was especially nice in the early days of my Twitter experience since I didn’t have many followers; I didn’t feel like I was talking to myself. Lol! Get to know more about her below:
Question 1. Name one surprising thing about you.
Answer 1. I love Marilyn Manson. Anyone that knows me knows this, but new friends always find this shocking. I even went to my first mosh pit experience to see him perform a few weeks ago. Best rush ever.
Q2. What’s your favorite food?
A2. Shrimp. I enjoy seafood.
Q3. What was your inspiration behind Best Friends, Fantasy Lovers?
A3. My infatuation with Robert Sheehan’s character, Nathan Young, on Misfits (BBC). I thought he was hilarious, gorgeous, and was an all-around compelling character with a hot Irish accent. It was hell trying to nail a culture/nationality I knew nothing about, but when the muse hit, I had to succumb. I ended up building a whole world around his personality. Since I was going to lots of rock concerts at the time, it just naturally evolved that his character would be a rocker. *insert universal rock sign* [S.M. side note: Tommy is quite the hilarious character and she freaking nailed the culture!]
Q4. Is there a message in your novel(s) that you want your readers to grasp?
A4. I’m not preachy about any particular message, but I’d love for people to feel how diversity, love and acceptance for all is a driving force behind my characterizations. I deliberately channel characters that aren’t mainstream, because I like for traits that society sees as “weird” or different to just be another thing that makes us special. I’d like for our differences to be celebrated. I’m attracted to characters that teach me something new about the world from a perspective I don’t naturally see things. I’d love for readers to feel that too.
Q5. When and why did you begin writing?
A5. I’ve been writing since I was first able to hold a pen…or at least that’s the story I’m sticking with. I didn’t get serious about writing fiction until 2009, when I needed the outlet. I like to craft my words to sound as intelligent, hip, snarky, or consoling as I intend them to be. Writing is a healthy form of therapy. Fiction lets me do it creatively.
Q6. What is the hardest thing about writing for you?
A6. The hardest thing about writing for me is finding time to do it. There just isn’t enough time to get it done. I already stay up late and get up early. I operate on little to no sleep just to get my daily tasks done. The only time I can write is somewhere between eleven at night and two in the morning. As you can imagine–I’m tired by then. But I do what I must.
Q7. Did you learn anything from writing your books? If so, what was it?
A7. I’ve learned A LOT. 1. My writing continues to improve with each story. All the more reason to keep doing it. 2. My target audience is even smaller than I expected. That means I don’t take my readers for granted. I make sure to respond back to each email, each text, each call, FB message, blog post, Tweet…you name it. I make sure my readers know how much I appreciate them. 3. My books must become films in order to garner more attention. I love films, so that works either way. 4. I love interacting with fans so much; I feel like they are friends. In that regard, I’ve learned that being an author is sharing pieces of my soul with everyone that reads my books. It makes me vulnerable, not just to criticism, but to the good and bad connections I develop with my new friends/readers.
There’s so much more. I also learn a lot from other authors (good and bad) and lot of cultural nuances while researching for my characters.
Q8. What would you say is your most interesting writing quirk, if any?
A8. My manic writing phase is pretty insane. The characters speak to me loud and clear, and they write the story. I probably struggled through the beginning of the story to find the right voice. Then BAM. My fingers just move. I eat, sleep, and breathe the story until it’s done. During one such manic phase, I actually wrote fifty thousand words in one week, including editing. It was a finished product by the time I was done. [S.M. side note: I’m similar. I can get manic when the flow is running strong.]
Q9. What do you think makes a story good?
A9. Compelling characters and unpredictable plots. Even if I don’t like a particular character, if the character’s development is good, that will make me feel something. If I feel something, it’s a good story. If it has a plot that I can’t guess what’s going to happen next, that suspense makes it a good story for me.
Q10. How can readers discover more about your works (e.g. Goodreads, Amazon, website, etc.)?
A10. I’m everywhere under Dicey Grenor: Goodreads, Amazon, Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, YouTube, Google Plus. My website is www.diceygrenorbooks.com.